How to make her fall in love with you…

What girls want and how to make her fall in love with you?

No mystery, girls like flowers, chocolates, food, fashion, traveling. The list just goes on. But what a girl really want is a one million dollar question. I bet if you knew the answer already you would not be here, reading this. There are strong girls, emotional girls, and tomboy girls, or girly girls, no-matter what kinds of girls are out there, they are GIRLS! That is the whole point. First things first! Is she attracted to you? That already means a lot. But we girls are quite emotional. If you are a real gentleman, you have to keep up with our emotions, meaning I will make a simplest list that you can keep track of ticking off of anytime you think your girl or your woman is complaining and doesn’t look happy.

A list of things you want to do to keep her happy:

1. Do things she likes to do. Take her places, she likes to go, learn dancing if she wants to (your leg won’t break). Take her to the beach, take her any place she feels happiest.
2. Listen to her music, I promise that is the best trick to cheer a girl up. Even if you don’t like the songs she listens to, just do it for her. ‘Happy wife, happy life’
3. Cook her food she likes, or surprise her with a breakfast. Breakfast and dinner are the most romantic for us girls. Don’t forget to light the candles now and then. This would make her happy too…
4. We all know, you might have screwed things up just because it was not your best day. No problem, another best way to apologize to her is: Write her a card and get her a bouquet of flowers as an apology gesture.
5. Date night outs. Never forget to take your girl to the date night outs. If you stop taking her out for date nights, she may as well start to feel that the Romance has ended and nothing scares a woman worse than the ‘Romance being Ended’. If your girl has given you any hint, or has complained about date nights, says a lot. You should definitely arrange a date night. Before she goes with someone else on a date-night! (Date-nights could be simplest TV watching, snuggling evenings in bed. You should not break-up with your partner just because your understanding of Date-night is different than his. You should be understanding and accepting too.)
6. Your anniversary (any anniversary, wedding, first met, civil-registration) is one of the most beautiful days and reasons which couples should enjoy celebrating. If one of the couple forgets, usually it tends to be a disaster. Especially if your girlfriend is kind of a girl who would get really upset over it, you should definitely set-up 10 different alarms to remind you of it.
7. Birthdays. Birthday celebrations are not necessarily need to be expensive gifts, clubs and get drunks. But at some point getting her an expensive gift will throw her off her heels. You can both have a different kinds of fun. You could gift one another an experience. It could be experience in Spa, or buy her coffee with full set coffee tools. So that she and you both can enjoy the glorious coffee every morning.
8. Hold her hand. Holding her hand gives her best feelings. This is the simplest remedy to prevent any negative thoughts that might cross her mind.
9. Long relationships can be turning to a darker side. Saving the relationship, treating each-other as if you just met, and you don’t know each-other very well (meaning, ask what do you like, suggest, be kind, be patient, and offer a hand). We people change, our likes, tastes change. So asking time to time, suggesting and offering new things and being open to new things will lighten up your lives.

I must mention however, I am not the best person who can remember the dates. Me and hubby both have forgotten multiple times the dates of our anniversary and we have missed it. I don’t care for it too much, but some part of my heart still cares and hopes that at least if he could remember and remind me of it. Or embarrass me, so that I would never forget about it.