Short Hair vs Long Hair as a woman. Hair Mentality.

The thoughts that crossed my mind, the day I decided to go against the obvious perception. The beauty and a definition of a woman by men at first sight. Well i decided to cut it real short.

It wasn’t an easy endurance. It’s not so easy to grow it back. It’s time consuming until its back to normal length. That normal length which separates us from our counter partners. But, no one said ‘never’. All they said was, it will grow back at some point. But the truth is it was a hell of a experience to have and own a short hair. Women with short hair get idiosyncratic treatment. Respect is always there, but being a woman is completely a distinctive privilege. Being a woman is a gift. 

So it took me few months to really decide, and I was in the right hands, who was obviously more excited than me to cut my hair short. Long story short, the long hair gotten short. Like real short.

That is where the story begins.

Short hair, was a brand new life for me. It made me look more serious, strong, independent. People started treating me more differently. Men were not attracted so much anymore. I think my thick long hair attracted them more. I started feeling like a real grown up woman. Who is responsible. No lefts, no special treats, no hunky punky. Which is right the opposite with when I had the long hair.

It is strange, how people has a set mind. Its like as if they are programmed.

All I want to say is, either I had a long hair or short. I am the same person. I was the same person all along and my personality didn’t change. Only my experience did. Even if I look like a strong woman or not I just want to remind everyone, I am a woman. And I like to be treated like one. Don’t you worry! Hair is just a style. Its not a personality. It is a style, the look of a hairstyle one chooses to have in the particular period of time. It doesn’t mean I am depressed, it doesn’t mean all the women who cut their hair are depressed! Hell no! I cut it, because i wanted to experience the style. I am so glad I did, cause it proved me, that I look damn hot even with that short hair on. Thats fantastic.

Peace of mind: never judge by appearances. Never judge through first impressions. Never judge by just listening to other people’s opinions. Take the time, get to know, and your journey will be different. Because we all are different people with different visions and expectations.